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About Ernesto Mejia

I came to this ministry wanting to escape from my from sexual sin, and found Jesus Christ, who saved me and made me free. By God's grace I was able to become a counselor and I am now serving here as an Executive Director. I contribute to this blog with notes about what I am actually reading, and answering questions readers make.

There is no superior in an accountability relationship

2017-11-14T11:15:51+00:00 November 14th, 2017|Categories: Restoration Strategies|Tags: , |

Sometimes, men who I don’t know come to me saying something like this: “I’ve heard you’re good in this issue of accountability; I want to ask you to be my accountability partner in order to stop watching porn. I have already held accountability but it hasn’t worked, I need a leader like you so it will [...]

Is it a sign of Christian maturity not to depend on other people?

2017-10-25T09:51:52+00:00 October 24th, 2017|Categories: Restoration Strategies|Tags: , , |

Thanks for giving me some minutes to share with you a brief teaching. I also want to say that if you’re receiving resources like this one, you must know that they’re not available for all our audience. But for the mentors of the ministry, who are very committed with Free in Christ, investing their time and [...]

Thinking “I’m a champion Christian” prevents me from repentance

2017-10-16T14:33:55+00:00 October 16th, 2017|Categories: Restoration Strategies|Tags: , , |

Gospel allows us to expose arguments that seem Biblical but, they don’t have any foundation on the Scripture. They, rather than help the needed ones, sink them more. I don’t consider myself one of the authors who preaches a depressive message where the more oppressed by the weight of the law is the Christian, the closer [...]

Understand the magnitude of your wife’s infidelity

2017-10-13T11:28:51+00:00 October 13th, 2017|Categories: Restoration Strategies|Tags: , , , |

There are many approaches to define the infidelity of your wife.  It can be defined as trauma, as sexual addiction, as a result of the affective deprivation in marriage. But I find that the sufficient and superior approach is defining it as sin. In my experience in the program Bravery Steps (Pasos de Valentía), I have [...]

Humility, a tool to stop sinning

2017-10-11T10:24:59+00:00 October 11th, 2017|Categories: Restoration Strategies|Tags: , , |

In recent weeks, I have had a memory in mind. I was already working in this full-time ministry. I had graduated a while ago from the online counseling program and had completed my preparation as a mentor. Aiming to follow us up in our recovery process of our biggest necessity, our Pastor asked a question in [...]

So everyone holds marriage in high esteem

2017-07-18T15:41:27+00:00 July 18th, 2017|Categories: Restoration Strategies|Tags: , |

I am convinced that the biblical teachings on marriage are for all Christians, not just married couples. Consider this passage: Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral. Hebrews 13:4 (NIV) Chapter 13 of Hebrews is not a text for couples. [...]

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